Our Portraits by Arielle Doneson Photography

It was a beautiful, beautiful spring day. The sun was peaking out from behind wispy clouds and the buds had juuuust started to bloom. It was exactly what I'd hoped for, for our own portraits by Arielle Doneson Photography. I've been more and more interested in film lately (and Arielle shoots lovely film photos) and I knew that if we could get that perfect golden sunlight, it would come through beautifully on film. It was a little bit of a daunting experience ... being on the other side of the lens ... but I learned so much, and we now have beautiful new portraits to hang in our house! While it seems a bit narcissistic to share them here, it also only seems fair to be vulnerable and put ourselves out there when you all allow me to do the same with your photos. So without further ado, here are a few of our favorites from our time with Arielle. She'll be sharing more in the coming weeks on her blog: www.ariellephoto.com/blog. Please go check out her beautiful work!

Cuyahoga Valley National Park Portraits

Evidently I thought something was a lot funnier than Nathan did. That usually seems to be the case!

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Meet Rosie

Black and White Kitten We adopted a cat, you guys! As I write this, this tiny, little furball is squished up against my leg. :) Rosie is a 10-week-old kitten that we found through a local shelter. We had been casually talking about getting a pet ... thought about a dog, decided that was too much work (ha!), talked about a cat, talked about a dog again and then found Rosie! We knew that if we went to look at animals we'd probably end up with one, and Rosie is perfect and SUPER friendly.

She loves:

  • Cuddling
  • Playing with her toy mouse ... and receipts and wrappers
  • Exploring every inch of every space
  • Burrowing under blankets

She hates:

  • Being alone
  • Using her litter box (oh boy)
  • The dryer

Black and White Kitten

Practicing What I Preach

I tell people all the time why getting their photo taken is important. Why freezing one moment in time, even a seemingly insignificant one, means so much. I preach these things day in and day out, but sometimes I lose sight and realize that I just sound like a broken record with no conviction. I knew it was time to get on the other side of the camera. As weird as it sounds, photographers get nervous to have their photos taken. Yes, we know what's coming but we're just like everyone else ... normal! Nevertheless, I think it's especially important for photographers to experience the other side of the lens every so often and get a better perspective on what our clients are thinking and feeling and doing. So, yesterday, Nathan and I had our photos taken by the lovely Arielle Doneson. It was such a beautiful evening and I walked away with a few thoughts that I want to share with you all:

  • I felt closer to Nathan after our session. We are both so busy and are sometimes like ships in the night, passing each other with opposite schedules. It was so nice to be close and laugh and talk and just ... be. We honestly forgot about the camera for that hour and a half.
  • A good photographer will give you direction so you don't feel awkward. I think part of the reason we forgot about the camera was because Arielle gave us permission to interact with each other and encouraged us the whole way. She was this sweet and calming voice that reminded us we were doing okay and that we were allowed to just soak up time with each other.
  • Getting our photos taken was a good excuse to be outside. Because Nathan and I both work in front of a computer all day, we tend to miss a lot of beautiful days. And sometimes we'll come home and sit in front of the TV instead of going outside. Having an hour and a half in nature was fabulous and made us realize that we need to soak up the good days as much as we can.
  • We took advantage of being dressed up and went out to dinner after our session. It was so fun to have an excuse to go out on a Monday night, and we both felt good (being dressed up and complimented by a photographer does wonders on your psyche). I would encourage all my couples to plan a date after their engagement session!

Practicing what I Preach

(Photo taken with an iPhone using the VSCO camera. Arielle is the cutest pregnant photographer ever!)

My Ideal Day

Nathan just got home from ... get this ... Vegas! Unfortunately he had to work long hours while he was there, but it's still cool to say he was in Vegas, right?? I was, alas, back in Ohio editing lots and lots of pictures. And I realized, as I was regaling him with stories of my four days alone, that while he was gone I had eaten two entire frozen pizzas, made three trips to get frozen yogurt and made the same number of trips to Starbucks for caffeine. It's official. I live like a poor, college student when I'm left to fend for myself. (Now do you see why I can't claim to be a foodie and why I include "cook real meals" as a monthly goal ... every month??)

After the realization sunk in of just how many hours I had spent in front of the computer and how few nutritious things I had put into my body in four days, I knew I needed to refocus and take a hard look at how I was spending my days. You know, before I start craving Ramen or something.

I remembered a post Nancy Ray did awhile back about her ideal day, and I knew that if I could actually put down on paper what an ideal day in the real world looks like for me, I might be able to achieve it once in awhile. So here goes:

7 a.m.  Wake up with Nathan, make a healthy smoothie and settle myself on the couch with my laptop, ready to tackle e-mails (while yesterday's "Ellen" is playing in the background. I know it's probably not the most productive but I love this time)

8 a.m.  Post the day's blog (that was hopefully completed the day before) and spend time on social media

8:30 a.m.  Head upstairs to get dressed (or at least do the Shetzie) and to my office to tackle admin stuff—taxes, budget, contracts, filing, etc. (I've found that if I don't do a little bit of this each day, I get overwhelmed with how many little detail things pile up)

9 a.m.  Edit photos (or whatever big task is on my to do list for the day) without social media/e-mail breaks

10 a.m.  Work out and have healthy snack afterwards

11 a.m.  Do office work without social media/e-mail breaks

Noon  Eat lunch, read and/or mindlessly surf the Internet

12:30 p.m. Do office work without social media/e-mail breaks (if you haven't noticed, I work best in 1-hour chunks)

1:30 p.m.  Tackle a house chore, like picking up the living room or cleaning the bathroom

2 p.m.  Write my blog for the next day

2:30 p.m.  Do office work without social media/e-mail breaks

3:30 p.m. Check e-mail

4 p.m. Do office work without social media/e-mail breaks

4:45 p.m.  Pick up the office and plan for the next day

5 p.m.  Make a healthy dinner

5:30 p.m. Sit down to dinner with Nathan and talk about our days

6 p.m. Spend the evening with Nathan (taking a walk, watching our favorite show, reading, making a fro yo run)

9 p.m.  Pick up around the house, do dishes, take a bath ... in general, get ready for the next day

10 p.m. Be in bed reading, doing a devotional and winding down

10:30 p.m.  Lights out

Hands down, my worst habit (and I'm really ashamed to admit this) is not sticking to my office hours and working well into the evening, all the while missing time with Nathan. Now that he's gone a lot, I really appreciate every hour I have with him. I want to make this ideal day a reality so that I don't spend time in front of a computer screen all night. It's all about working smarter, not wasting time on Facebook and planning ahead. And big news: Nathan and I decided to suspend our cable this summer so that we're spending more quality time with each other and enjoying the outdoors instead of sitting inside mesmerized by a screen. It's all about living in the moment, folks!

So what about you? What does your ideal day look like?

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